I really feel there is a waking up of women around the country. Working mothers are talking to homemakers and the buzz is spreading. There are too many children being raised in day cares. There are too many homes in chaos and frenzy (how many times have you seen those shows on Oprah where she sends in a team to clean up disgusting houses? Those homes belong to working women, folks! They aren't homemakers, that's for sure!) Our children are become obese because mothers are relying on fast foods to feed their children. They are too tired to come home and cook a decent meal. And I don't blame them- I know how it feels. When I worked full time, the last thing I wanted to do was cook for SH and I.I can feel that women are realizing that somethings wrong with the the way their families are functioning. Slowly but surely, they are realizing that they were lied to. But so often they feel trapped. They need those two incomes. She has to work. Well, people lived on one income for decades. Did they have cable TV, McMansions, BMWs, cell phones for each family member, appointments for nails, fancy laptops, TV sets in every bedroom? No. They didn't. Sometimes luxuries aren't possible. But the women were home and the country was better because of it! God bless those women of the 50's who made do with what they had!
OK, enough about that. I could write on and on but I'll save it for tomorrow. :) On to Making Your Home a Haven Mondays!
OK, enough about that. I could write on and on but I'll save it for tomorrow. :) On to Making Your Home a Haven Mondays!This week, Tammy challenges us to, "decide what wake-up time would serve you and your family the best."
For us, I think 6:30am would be ideal. Doing so would give me enough time to peaceful spend some time in the Word and prayer as well as allow me to make Southern Hubby's lunch and get all his vitamins ready. When he gets us, so do the puppers, so I must take them out to potty, feed them their breakfast and dole out any medication Mattie might be on.
For us, I think 6:30am would be ideal. Doing so would give me enough time to peaceful spend some time in the Word and prayer as well as allow me to make Southern Hubby's lunch and get all his vitamins ready. When he gets us, so do the puppers, so I must take them out to potty, feed them their breakfast and dole out any medication Mattie might be on.
I'm not rushing, and my heart is in the right place because I started it with Him. I'm ready to bless my home and little family!
I so love these challenges! If you want to join Tammy and the rest of the girls, head on over to her blog. I'll see you gals tomorrow!
Happy sweet, beautiful Monday! The sun is shining and the birds are chirping in my neck of the woods! Are they in yours?
xoxo Y
PS. How are you liking the mini-face lift I gave my little place over the weekend? I'm lovin' the new changes!





15 sweetie poos said...:
Jen, I love your spring updates around here. It looks great!
I also love what you wrote about women starting to awaken to the desire of being at home. I am seeing that as well and oh what a blessing it is to have more women return to their rightful place at home. What a beautiful post.
I just wanted to comment on what you said about being called to the home. I have been called to my home as a stay at home wife for awhile now and I had the chance back in October, but my flesh caused so much fear, I decided to take a job that now I realize, I should not have taken.
This weekend God pressed it into my heart so much that I NEED To be at home, that I am giving my two weeks notice today.
Here's the rub; my husband is unemployed and we were really relying on my paycheck to help pay bills and buy food. Does it make sense for me to quit my job? Absolutely not. On paper, it looks impossible for us to make our bills, but that's not the issue. The issue was that for the past 6 months, I have been in direct disobedience for God's command for me to be home and now is the time for me to step up and take that step of faith and trust God to meet our needs. Am I scared? I'm totally scared, but I serve a righteous God that will take care of us and will bless us for taking this step of faith.
I'm sorry I posted this huge saga of what is going on, but when God is calling you home, you may want to sit and listen and take those steps to be home, no matter how scary it seems because God knows what's best for you and He WILL provide.
God bless you guys!
Becky. the Ramblin' Rat
Becky, the Ramblin' Rat,
Oh my! Honey, your faith in God is commendable. And I mean that with all of my heart. I cannot even begin to tell you how much it means to me to hear your message today. I hope there are other girls out there who read your comment and it really makes them think or appreciate what they have.
There are so many women (myself included) who would be too scared to take such a scary and unknown jump. But, as you have shown, that is exactly where your faith comes into play. You are an AMAZING woman! And I must tell you what a fabulous man you have that supports that decision.
Thank you so much for your inspiration today. You don't know how much I needed to hear your story.
Blessings,
Jennifer
Yeah, I was born in 1953. The things you
mentioned, like cell phones, didn't even exist. They hadn't been invented yet. We had black and white tv's, a record player and a few records, and a box camera and a few kitchen appliances and that was it; maybe an exercycle to keep in shape.
Computers, microwaves, cell phones, printer/copiers/, CD and DVD players and the things that went with them, crock pots, gym memberships, exercise equipment hadn't been invented yet. They didn't exist yet.
Dryers and dishwashers and air conditioning, and a second car and swimming pools were for the wealthy. Now everybody has those things, with the exception, maybe, of the swimming pool.
There was just less TO spend your money on. All these new inventions created a market. We now don't want to live without those things.
Thank you for your sweet words, Jennifer. I am also hoping that other ladies can use my testimony to open their hearts to whatever God is calling them to do.
It is really amazing that my husband is 100% on board with this because 6 months ago, he wasn't. He understood my desire to be at home, but he over analyzed the situation and let his fear take over too. Yes, we have been so blessed these past 6 months, but we are realizing that we probably have missed out on even more blessing that God had for us, because we were in disobedience to Him.
What is so amazing to see is that my husband even told me this morning that he is so excited to see what God has for us. Those are huge words coming from a very analytical and logical man.
Sounds great! Good luck! This is going to be tough for me. I am such a night owl!
I loved this post. Especially the first part and your desire to help other women. That is the purpose of MyHomeSanctuary I just came back from Becky's thanks for sending us over there her faith does Bless.
Have a great day and btw don't be a night owl if your gettin' up early!
Hugs,
Sherry
You have a lovely voice, I felt peaceful just reading your post. xoxo
you have such a cute picture for your blog. i love it!
I thinking havinga wake up time is a good idea. I like the idea of making it earlier then the rest of the kids too.
My kids are do in school at 8am, so I think a 6:30 wake up for me just might work out.
I've recently been thinking about how many fewer husbands would be unemployed if all the wives out there working to support a lifestyle were at home taking care of their family.
I am posting this anonymously because I do not want to be flamed for my opinion.
great post thanks for sharing
You've inspired me to start changing some things around here. :) Hope you had a great weekend!
The important thing is to know where God has called YOU! I love John 2:5 "Whatever He tells you to do, do it"
I am a working woman and a homemaker. I think we need not to put both things apart.
I am an homemaker, an housewife, even if I go out to gain some money. My heart is at home and I take my mission as an homemaker very seriousely.
Alfazema
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